nativity.

doesn't matter if you're a Christian or not, Christmas should not be a big drinking party where everybody gets drunk, wasted and receives useless or extremely precious presents.

Christmas is about love. 

for Christians it's the God's love we feel on this day more than any other, among ourselves, celebrating the birth of the Saviour.

and for Non-Christians, with all the respect, it's the love we feel for each other, giving and receiving it, no matter what the physical world gives us, no matter if the presents are what they're expected to be, no matter if we're in doubles or not. 

what matters is the emphasis of pure love, God's and ours.